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Not sure if I should say something to the parents

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    Yesterday, I was doing an homework help section at the public library. Afterwards, one of the Jr High girls asked me, why grown men stare at her all the time with lust.
    I told her it was the way She dresses, to wear lose fitting clothes. The Parents thanked me for telling her that. Later at home, I got an odd call from some Guy telling me that I have no right to tell her that. After the call I did a Call Trace with Star 57. I turned the information over to a neighbor who is a Police Person. I was informed today that the caller was a sexual predator and other information on prevention. I visited their Pastor to inform him. He said that He will cover the subject in his next men's meeting tomorrow without giving the family specifics. I am trying to figure out if I should speak to her Father concerning this. Please, pray. I did do a mass emailing to all my Students Parents about information at State Police site. I did discover the person's ID by other means and let the Library and Police know about him. He was at the Library yesterday and I recognized him from the State Police Website.
    It does not help much to dwell on those things you did or did not do in the past. At the time, you did the very best you could, given your knowledge, and experience.

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    Originally posted by Daniel Marsh View Post
    Yesterday, I was doing an homework help section at the public library. Afterwards, one of the Jr High girls asked me, why grown men stare at her all the time with lust.
    I told her it was the way She dresses, to wear lose fitting clothes. The Parents thanked me for telling her that. Later at home, I got an odd call from some Guy telling me that I have no right to tell her that. After the call I did a Call Trace with Star 57. I turned the information over to a neighbor who is a Police Person. I was informed today that the caller was a sexual predator and other information on prevention. I visited their Pastor to inform him. He said that He will cover the subject in his next men's meeting tomorrow without giving the family specifics. I am trying to figure out if I should speak to her Father concerning this. Please, pray. I did do a mass emailing to all my Students Parents about information at State Police site. I did discover the person's ID by other means and let the Library and Police know about him. He was at the Library yesterday and I recognized him from the State Police Website.
    Very important. Thank you for your stepping in. I will pray that the particular threat be removed. There are gazillions of threats. Let us also pray that God will protect the innocent.
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    • #3
      I spoke with the Father and Oldest Son(he is 23) and gave them the flyer on the sicko. We all saw the guy hanging around a playground, surrounded his car with ours after calling the Police.
      We detained him just by standing there. Since, Children were present and He was on Parole. The Police took him into custody and violated his Parole. He is now in jail completing a sentence.
      It does not help much to dwell on those things you did or did not do in the past. At the time, you did the very best you could, given your knowledge, and experience.

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      • #4
        Good job, protecting our kids should be a top priority, can't be to careful.
        All men see God in creation but suppress the evidence in sin. Good apologists for the Christian faith always remember that. As you prepare to defend the faith, study the truths of the faith and pray that minds will receive them. And Have Fun!

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        • #5
          I'm not seeing a specific prayer request.


          I do see a number of statements that could put you in legal jeopardy and much that is inappropriate but since this is a Prayer Request board I won't comment further, other than to ask for clarification on one particular point.


          Are you asking us to pray for you to find an answer as to whether or not you should tell the parents a pedophile called you to confront you about what you told their daughter after you (or someone else?) have told the parents you told their daughter the reason men stare at her with lust is because of the way she dresses?
          All verses cited or quoted or in the NAS unless otherwise noted.

          “if anyone competes as an athlete, he does not win the prize unless he competes according to the rules.” (2 Tim. 2:5)

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