There is a difference between what is self righteous judgement....
"Thou shall not judge."
And, discernment. A grace oriented form of judgement that comes from knowledge understood in the filling of the Spirit.
Sad to say... Its a category of knowledge that you have yet to understand in the grace of the Spirit.
But, you could understand it if you experience a change in heart. Its not difficult when God grants it to happen.
But he who is spiritual judges all things, yet he himself is rightly judged by no one."
1 Corinthians 2:15
One who walks in your shoes is not yet equipped with the needed spiritual apparatus to be able to properly judge what a mature Christian is.
God must do the work to get believers to this point in maturity. Which requires times of suffering and learning for the prize to be gained.
You can only hit back at me with what you subjectively identify with as like when you judge another. What I judge (evaluate) about you is impersonal. I wish you no harm. I desire not to make myself higher than you. I really wish you could be someday understanding what I speak of...
If I saw myself as superior? I would see no hope in you. God's grace can make you to become what God desires you to become. It becomes having a sense a knowing, like certain birds instinctively know to fly to a warmer climate before winter comes. You just find yourself knowing what is needed because one makes himself available to serious accurate Bible study.
grace and peace .......
