Yours is based on nothing. No standard or foundation. No requisite reference point but your own feelings so there is that...
Your percentage is a little high, but I'm impressed you know so many personally, and I will not give any sexual deviant the chance to impose their bankrupt morals on my family. Their lifestyle choice is diametrically opposed to ours so the two will not meet. Period.
How you relate sexual deviancy to murder and double parking is a little baffling but hey, when your moral argument is based on nothing but feelings you have to use something to justify it.
I was a Military Policeman in the Army (retired) and quite exposed to the darker side of humanity. I was also a Security Executive Manager at a Mental Health Confinement facility (retired). The amount of sex offenders is very high in that population and your personal experience does not necessarily indicate what my personal experience is. There were young men and women who had been abused by their family members, and that wasn't necessarily the root cause of their mental disorder in every case, but not the majority. The majority were sociopaths. And don't think I missed the veiled ad hom in your final sentence there.
I am not claiming a right. I am expressing my opinion. You can either accept that it is my opinion or unread everything we have been interacting about if these offend your ideology.
My children and my grandchildren have, are and will be influenced by those who have the right to influence them and that's us, their parents and grandparents. Not some outlier segment of a morally imploding society.
I don't think so. I mean, perhaps in your little bubble of society where you associate with those like-minded perhaps. But overall, yea, not so much. Society, as a whole, does not embrace this regressive sexual deviancy being forced onto it.
You have no place to decide how we raise our children and grandchildren. If you believe your opinion does you are as deluded as the public education system that believes they have that role too. And fyi, I am not concerned with being "generally accepted", if that fact hasn't been apparent.