How about mine:
1. It seems to me that Reformed theology says that one can be regenerated (infused with the Holy Spirit, Born Again) even before one repents of his former ways. This contradicts Acts 2:38 wherein Saint Paul says that repentance precedes regeneration. These are hard core holiness standards I believe that must be met before one becomes a child of God.
2. Irresistible Grace neutralizes human will and renders it incapable of playing any role whatsoever in the acceptance of the gift of salvation. It flies in the face of Rev 3:20 “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and will dine with him and he with Me.” It renders Christ's human will as totally subsumed by Christ's divine will and therefore non-existent.
Furthermore, if Grace is Irresistible, there would be no need for Jesus to exhort people in Mark 1:15 to repent in order to receive God’s Grace. Grace would be irresistibly received without any need for evangelistic proclamation whatsoever.
3. It’s disingenuous for Reformers to proclaim that God loves everyone when in fact the Reformed God has already predestined souls to destruction and there’s nothing that soul can do about it, even if he repented and believed. Nothing, nada. That belief contradicts 1 John 2:2 wherein it is mentioned that Jesus "is the propitiation concerning our sins, and not concerning ours only, but also concerning the sins of all the world (ὅλου τοῦ κόσμου)” (1 John 2:2), where the word "ὅλου" translates to “all”.
4. Total Depravity is Iconoclastic to the core. The doctrine of Total Depravity is the smashing of the icon image of God in man, a dehumanization of man. Nowhere in the Bible has man ever totally lost the icon image of God that is in all of us as evidenced by our God-given hearts and conscience (Rom 2:14-15). I do believe that man is depraved but not totally depraved.