The tide turned sometime ago. Virtually everyone, other than yourself of course, can distinguish between a concept and the application of that concept. A few rogue priests do not mean that all religion is child abuse. A few rogue police officers do not render the notion of policing a dangerous one. Transgender as a concept is far bigger than a few individuals who have misunderstood or misused it, just as it is far bigger than you. Trans, as an issue is where homosexuality was forty years ago, and where race was sixty years ago. Those battles have been won, less a few dinosaurs. Trans is rapidly becoming a recognisable feature of modern life, a welcome form of diversity. And like both race and homosexuality before it, the more open it is, the more accepted it is, and the more accepted it is, the less important it becomes. What gender a person is, or wishes to be, is really of no importance whatsoever, any more than to their sexuality, their race or where they REALLY come from. It's only obsessives like yourself who get uptight over this, an as those obsessives are overruled and die out, the issue will die away too. Eighty years ago, your life chances in the UK were severely impacted by your accent. That has ceased to be the case. As has the gender you present to the world ceased to be important.
