CARM is a discussion forum Part of that discussion requires debating. However, if you choose not to debate nor discuss, then that is your choice
A discussion can have a 500 word thesis or intro. To communicate you
Describe the problem,
Explain the problem,
Specify how you want to handle the problem or what you want done, and give
Consequences if the problem is not fixed. That is communication.
The thread starts with John 3:16, has possible gender inclusion, brings up hell and immortal souls.
I reply and I get topics about the right Jesus or a manufactured Jesus.
Then I get asked a leading question and I know better to answer leading questions. The leading question is followed by a forum discussion link. Is it an example of a thread hijack in progress? And isn't it throwing me into another discussion with multiple posts and or posters? Talk about information overload on my budgeted time.
Its not a discussion. Its we start out here and end up there kind of a discussion if you can call it that. Do you really want to treat people like that?
Relationships are reciprocal or complimentary so when I don't know where the poster is coming or going, its hard to reciprocate because the debate is not structured and it is going all over the place. I'm sorry if I cannot meet anyone at the objective here because there is none that I can see. I think it is called baiting among other things.
I'd rather have an academic discussion where there is a thesis, summary, body of information, etc. I know where the writer is coming, going and what is expected of me to have a conversation. I don't want a hodge podge of debate for the sake of controversy. This thread is confusion. If it continues, there will be many different bunny trails for me to be expected to hop along and to dive into bunny holes each with their own different underground trail. This is confusion.
And if you want people to be friends back, you have to play by their rules. You don't get everyone to play by your rules.
I live in a more structured environment where things are fair. I refuse to jump through hoops because someone just wants to have fun with me.
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