You're right that "Jesus didn't go into the tomb, sit at the side of dead Lazarus and persuade him to rise;" however, sinners to whom the gospel is preached are not dead bodies in a hole dug in the ground, either. This is one of the problems with Calvinism: you err by taking what is literal and treating it as a figure, analogy or metaphor. Spiritual death is a literal condition, and not an analogy to an inanimate body in a grave. Spiritual death is not about being inanimate--it's about being separated from God. "As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead." And a spirit without God is dead. There is also the condition of being "dead in sins," in which you are not only spiritually separated from God, but also a dead man walking, as it were, regarding the coming judgment. But neither way of expressing the condition of spiritual death contains within its meaning the idea of being inanimate.