?? God has certainly ordained the things of eternal damnation. Forgotten by God?
Sovereignty and providence are two different things.
Yes, forgotten of God. The soul who is cast into the lake of fire is put into a place where the omnipresent God has chosen not to be. I know that because there is no light there, and men gnaw there tongues for the pain of the outer darkness. There is no water there. There is no peace there.
Matthew 22:13
Then said the king to the servants, Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into
outer darkness, there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Everything that happened to Jesus Christ on the cross will happen to those in that awful place. God forsook him while sin was poured out upon him. He bore the payment for our sins. He was separated from God on that cross. The Spirit departed and God turned his back on him. It did suffer no less than sinners will. Our salvation came at an awful price and our Lord Jesus Christ should be exalted and praised for what he did for us.
1 Peter 2:24
Who
his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree, that we, being dead (separated) to sins, should live unto righteousness: by whose stripes ye were healed.