Agreed self always is enmity with God, These cant relate to the perfections of God because self has its own ways for perfection. And there is help for this obscurity and that is for God to be manifest in you who perfects His way. BTW which simply is Love. Love is perfect and is the disposition for all who has His same SPirit of Love as our own disposition.Narcissism doesn’t see imperfections in itself. There is help for that. Good luck.
You dont have His SPirit to know this difference do you?