You can claim what you want, but what you are pushing does not define as Christianity, but a heresy that is most definitely not Christian.
I know, it is always that way with religious folk who has their own religion about a god.
Claim what I want? I wanted to be that person of Christ that God sent Jesus to show me what it is to be born of God myself and receive from Him the very same as Jesus did in Matt 3:16. And guess what, He honered my wants.
I doubt you will even read this but will post it anyway with a chance that you might read it.
That What Jesus proposes that you be like him and our Father and perfect even as your Father in heaven is perfect and to walk as He walks in His same light with the same signs following is always heresy to the religious minds.
Look how the same accused Jesus of heresy for saying theses same things you should be like him in the Father that you deem a heresy that to you is heresy because you are supposed to be in the Father and He be in you as one no different at all from He was in Jesus and Jesus was in Him as one. See Jesus prayer top his God that you be one in Him in John 17. Read it, Jesus didn't pray just to tell God how to run His business, or at least he didn't for me. His prayer to God worked for me, He is in me and I am in Him as one just as Jesus was, same mind, same disposition that of Love for God is Love and man is the temple of Him.
The way of Christ, and Christ simply means to be anointed of God, Christ in you, Christ like, To actually be that person of Christ that God demands of you has always been heresy for people like yourself who are of a religious mind instead of being born off God to be like Him as He demands of you.
Only because you cant follow the way of the one God sent to teach you His way doesnt mean I dont, it only means that you dont is all. For His way to be like Him is heresy for you to even think that you can be perfect even as your Father in heaven is perfect, holy, pure, completely without sin, which is His righteousness that we be.
But I agree with you in that -- His way does not define your way for christianity for sure. His way isn't your way at all.
His way is to be like Him, your way is to be like you instead of Him.