So He is waiting for us to surrender?
Romans 9 says that its not about human will. Looks like it's up to God to decide who His sheep are.
16 So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy.
Actually is the mercy spoken of the opportunity to be justified by faith
Romans 9:30-32 (NASB)
30 What shall we say then? That Gentiles, who did not pursue righteousness, attained righteousness, even the righteousness which is by faith;
31 but Israel, pursuing a law of righteousness, did not arrive at
that law.
32 Why? Because
they did not
pursue it by faith, but as though
it were by works. They stumbled over the stumbling stone,
and unbelief grounds for the with-holding of mercy
Romans 11:17-23 (NASB)
17 But if some of the branches were broken off, and you, being a wild olive, were grafted in among them and became partaker with them of the rich root of the olive tree,
18 do not be arrogant toward the branches; but if you are arrogant,
remember that it is not you who supports the root, but the root
supports you.
19 You will say then, "Branches were broken off so that I might be grafted in."
20 Quite right, they were broken off for their unbelief, but you stand by your faith. Do not be conceited, but fear;
21 for if God did not spare the natural branches, He will not spare you, either.
22 Behold then the kindness and severity of God; to those who fell, severity, but to you, God's kindness, if you continue in His kindness; otherwise you also will be cut off.
23 And they also, if they do not continue in their unbelief, will be grafted in, for God is able to graft them in again.
further there is a remedy - Remain not in unbelief