A man cant become a woman. As demonstrated.All definitions match reality. It isn't my thinking that makes it so, it's reality. Try googling famous trans people. You think that they didn't exist? They are identified as transpeople despite your assertions. And whether you approve of the politics or not, referring to them as trans makes sense. It identifies their common characteristic and give context to their lives.
The fact is that you have no interest in or empathy for other people. You define people against your brittle beliefs, and if you cannot cope with their existence, you pretend to yourself that they don't exist. What a self-absorbed monomaniac you are