I wasn't putting words in your mouth. It was a serious question. I know that some in this forum (like 4Him) have expressed the view that the unsaved have no hope of changing their fate. I am glad to hear that you do not share that view because I don't share that view either. I am of the opinion that everyone has the possibility of being saved.Please do not put words into my mouth. The unsaved are not stupid, they just do not know about God and NO ONE knows when they will be lead to meet Jesus.
No, that's where Catholics start too, introducing children to Jesus at the beginning.But we are not to put obstacles into your path. No the first thing to do is to introduce the unsaved to Jesus. Shows how little RCs really know about being saved.