You didn't go to RC schools etc. Then you do not understand RC teachings. There is a focus on Mary.
Catechism
971 "All generations will call me blessed": "The Church's devotion to the Blessed Virgin is intrinsic to Christian worship." The Church rightly honors "the Blessed Virgin with special devotion. From the most ancient times the Blessed Virgin has been honored with the title of 'Mother of God,' to whose protection the faithful fly in all their dangers and needs.... This very special devotion ... differs essentially from the adoration which is given to the incarnate Word and equally to the Father and the Holy Spirit, and greatly fosters this adoration." The liturgical feasts dedicated to the Mother of God and Marian prayer, such as the rosary, an "epitome of the whole Gospel," express this devotion to the Virgin Mary.
Do you know how many Marian feast days there are in a year? Do you know the rosary? Do you know how many titles Mary has? Do you know how many scapula are in Mary's name and their function?
You have only been to mass several times? Your mother failed to bring you up RC?