That definition proves you wrong, since a phobia is defined as a fear or aversion. You were and are wrong.
I quoted a definition that proves YOU wrong. Wanna see it again:
phobia: n an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something
We avert ourselves from that which we fear.
Not only that, I also presented you with the top four google listed definitions, which all define it EXCLUSIVELY as a fear.
And for a bonus, I gave you the Greek derivation, which means fear.
You have been thoroughly trounced here.