All this is true. All this is irrelevant. Any abortion that happens, doesn't happen to a person like me. It doesn't happen to a person at all. It does not matter how often you suggest that I am a survivor of abortion, lucky to be alive, etc. etc. It makes no difference. Abortion is a moral and a social issue, not a biological one.
One of the saddest, most honest testimonies to amorality I've ever read...The fact is, potential is the seed from which all creativity is born. A rock doesn't have the potential to become a Shakespeare...or a Bacon, depending on which side of that theory you're on...but a fetus does. The child you destroy in the womb will accomplish nothing. You, on the other hand, have here presented a skilled argument in favor of "not giving a shit" that no dead fetus could ever have made. In order to contradict your own point and prove that you at least matter, you HAD TO survive gestation, and by God's grace alone you did, and all lurkers, who likewise survived are reading with wonder your argument against survival.
And yet it is apparently pollution, particularly the American habit of stuffing farm animals with hormones, that is drastically reducing the levels of fertility, damaging sperm counts and male genitalia. As I said, it is having a greater effect on the next generation than abortion. We don't need to increase the population, but it would be good to have sufficient young people to run the place after I retire.
Some of your persuasion argue even against this...Bill Gates is convinced that the more dead, the better for the planet.
You would assume wrong. I have taught in various establishments for most of my working life.
Can you think of any students you would wish dead? Do you really feel godlike enough to say it would be better for them had they never been born?
Good for you. I have also worked in deprived communities. Including working as a safeguarding manager enabling young women in my care to obtain abortions if they wanted and needed one.
As a teacher, I'm sorry for the lost. I'm not better off for their death.
I don't play God. I don't even believe in God.
Things happen inadvertently, though don't they...helping others destroy the life in them for the sake of convenience. You don't need to believe in God to presume to act in his behalf. God knows the end from the beginning, and you called for the end at the beginning.
God has no part to play in determining social policy, either directly or as part of your belief.
He might think otherwise. You see...he wrote the owners manual. It's really quite pragmatic: If the consequences of an act are evil, the act itself is evil. Hence, when the USSR drained the Aral Sea to irrigate the desert, and all that returned to the sea was the effluvium of rotting waste, killing the sea for generations, and turning the land into noxious waste, draining the sea was an act of evil.
You have not weighed the consequences of shedding innocent blood...and you cannot, because, not being God, you cannot see the end. But you have ensured that end as you have assured yourself that there is no consequence. One chapter of the Bible, if you took the time, would bear witness to what is happening and why you think the way you do...just one. It's all written in Romans 1, a chapter that Canada is forbidden to read on the radio.
Doing right by people is more important than doing right by a deity that the majority of people don't believe in. If by chance he exists and cannot be bothered to arrange things more sensibly, then He should leave it to human beings to sort out.
His resurrection from the dead is proof enough of His existence...and your very statement is proof enough that He has given to us to "arrange things more sensibly", and to hold us accountable for what we are calling "sensibly." Since the death of a child makes sense to you...you will be given the chance to explain your own reasoning...and I'm sure the child will be able to listen to the argument as you make it.
Except you don't do that. The vast majority of "pro-life" supporters are right wing evangelists who would rather run a mile in tight shoes than vote for any programme that realistically supports the poor.
I don't vote for programs that politicians, whose net worth has increased by 1000% while in office, assure me will "help the poor." We just signed a multi-trillion "help the poor, COVID relief" handout where 9% goes to COVID relief, and 91% gets distributed among themselves and their constituents.
Here's the thing. A healthy sex life has nothing to do with reproduction.
Um...Coincidentally, it can be argued that it does.
A sex life, healthy or unhealthy, that includes the exchange of bodily fluids in propitious orifices, runs the risk of having EVERYTHING to do with reproduction.
Pair bonding and simply enjoying sex is not just an optional extra but a fundamental part of being human.
Again, you presume. There are those who are predisposed to contain themselves for a set purpose...and that is a sublimely, admirably, quintessentially human choice.
No contraceptive method is 100% effective.
Nonsense. Abstinence has never been known to fail, but once in the history of mankind. And that once was foreseen and foretold...and a matter of faith and not human contact.
No woman should be bullied into abstinence or blackmailed into parenthood. Putting the interests of a non-person ahead of the interests of an actual person is grotesque and unfair.
You choose interesting terms. Of course I agree that no one should be "bullied" into anything, although, I believe good education can be said to "bully" the attentive into THINKING...something that is more and more discouraged these days. Morality is a matter of public health, despite your own claims and apparent misunderstandings.
The word you are grasping for is "unnatural" with a side order of "perverse". Reproduction is not the sole, or even the prime function of sex. Having an abortion when unwillingly pregnant is both mature and responsible. Declaring total abstinence for the foreseeable future is neither.
Again...we'll obviously disagree when three human beings are involved. When you discount your own gestation as the beginning of you, you only prove that living in denial does not produce the most thought-induced results.
Biology is indeed science, and is irrelevant to moral or social issues. What is contemptible is forcing vulnerable women to go through a process they don't wish to undergo, possibly ruining their entire lives as a result, and blaming them for the fact. Women who are pregnant have a number of choices available to them. They should have all the options clearly explained, then enabled to take the action that they choose. Any other course is repression.
When it explains why this is a three way conversation and not a two way conversation, you have to resort again to denial to suggest what you do. Thanks again for your post and your patience.