I first like people to believe James 1:5-6. But, Okay. I had been attacked by men online. So first I cried. Because I will do whatever He speaks to me through His word, and directly. But I knew He had spoken to me and said "I am giving you the office of teacher." That happened in 2000 while I was driving alone through the desert between Arizona and California. I was going to Jack Hayford's church for a seminar. Once I got there I told Jack what God had said, and asked him to be the one to anoint me with oil. So he and the then Sr. pastor of Church on the Way took me into a back room and anointed me. Now I'm being attacked, and I wanted to make sure it was okay to teach online to men. Of course it was okay in Jack's denomination, having begun by a woman... But I still wanted to ask. So I asked God in tears why Paul said those things about women. Immediately He spoke and said, "I didn't tell him that." That is how I knew it was only Paul's culture and his own opinion as a Jew.
BTW, God also said Eve's sin was first but unintentional. She had never heard a lie before and believed it must be okay. This was also Satan's first active sin when iniquity was found in him. Adam's sin was willful and intentional. He loved his wife more than God. It was only after Adam's willful sin that they saw they were naked. Nothing happened before after Eve sinned.
As far as giving CT a different answer, no He will not give him a different answer. But can CT hear Him? I can, but not before 1977, 30 years after first going to church. (raised in the SDA until I was 23 and a light went on in my understanding. But wasn't fully baptized in the Spirit until I was 30).