Whateverman
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Speaking for myself, deceiving someone into having sex with you is bad in general. There are actual songs written about discovering your lover is the "wrong" gender, and cross dressers have been beaten-up / murdered for not admitting their gender to the person they're trying to pick up.I get what you are saying but I still think it's horrible to lie to someone and not admit your gender.
So you're not alone in thinking that.
Like others have said, if you're in a relationship with someone else, I really don't know how you can hide your gender.Especially if there is a serious relationship developing. If it's casual sex then you get what you get lol and I don't think the trans person is obligated to share in that case.