I don't know about that.
Why did the author of Hebrews warn us not to be like Esau who despised his birthright and sold it for a single meal in Hebrews 12:16?
See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled; 16 that no one is sexually immoral or unholy like Esau, who sold his birthright for a single meal. 17 For you know that afterward, when he desired to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, for he found no chance to repent, though he sought it with tears. ESV
If Esau's spiritual birthright was being marked as a vessel of wrath in which he had absolutely no free choice about, why are we warned not to be like him? Esau would have no real birthright at all to sell, and we couldn't sell ours either. What did Esau even have to repent of, if he had no legitimate "blessing" that he rejected, but was marked out for a curse?
This makes no sense under Calvinism; no predestined child of God could sell his birthright, it would be an impossibility.