All you offered was denial
The one in denial is you.
and Jesus did not refute me but affirns what i stated
As was typical I posted a number of links and argumentys which you do not address
Everything you posted was addressed. Ad nauseum. You just don't like the answers, so you claim that nothing is addressed is a lie.
The fact that one must first believe before he can have the spirit another
Galatians 3:14 (ASV)
14 that upon the Gentiles might come the blessing of Abraham in Christ Jesus; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.
John 7:38-39 (ASV)
38 He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, from within him shall flow rivers of living water.
39 But this spake he of the Spirit, which they that believed on him were to receive: for the Spirit was not yet given; because Jesus was not yet glorified.
that makes your claim one cannot understand the gospel until he has the spirit impossible
The natural man CANNOT understand the things of the Spirit...FACT.
God CAUSES us to be born again....GOD.
FYI, everything the apostles did was via the Spirit, even while Jesus walked this earth.
Apparently John 7 is yet another verse you don't understand.