Urgent Prayer Request

LexiB

New Member
I don't normally ask for prayers, I try to handle things on my own, but I can't do that anymore. I have two young kids (4 and almost 6 years old) Things have been steadily going downhill with my partner and I just can't handle things anymore. I can't take the abuse from him anymore, I need to get myself and my babies out. Last night was HORRIFIC. He kicked off at nothing, punching holes in the wall, throwing things, destroying anything that belongs to me. Dresser, futon, TV, washer and dryer (flooded the laundry room completely), everything. I'm a stay at home mother, so he has completely taken control of finances. He's withheld and IS withholding food and necessities from us. Refuses to allow me to drive to go out and get anything we need, not that he'd let me have to money to get things anyway. If I ask, it becomes a fight and I worry for my safety and my kids safety. Last night was one of the worst nights in a while and I NEED to get away. I need to leave, I need to feed my babies, I need to escape this. My only moments of peace come when he's at work all day, but that doesn't last forever. Shelters are full because of Covid, I have NO family or friends nearby that can help, I'm STUCK. If I was able to hop in the van and go, I would, but I'd never make it with nothing. No gas, no food, nothing to care for my kids until we got somewhere safe. PLEASE pray for me if you can, so that I can get myself and my babies out of here safely. Even if you're not one to pray, I'd appreciate even a kind thought.
 

Beloved Daughter

Super Member
I don't normally ask for prayers, I try to handle things on my own, but I can't do that anymore. I have two young kids (4 and almost 6 years old) Things have been steadily going downhill with my partner and I just can't handle things anymore. I can't take the abuse from him anymore, I need to get myself and my babies out. Last night was HORRIFIC. He kicked off at nothing, punching holes in the wall, throwing things, destroying anything that belongs to me. Dresser, futon, TV, washer and dryer (flooded the laundry room completely), everything. I'm a stay at home mother, so he has completely taken control of finances. He's withheld and IS withholding food and necessities from us. Refuses to allow me to drive to go out and get anything we need, not that he'd let me have to money to get things anyway. If I ask, it becomes a fight and I worry for my safety and my kids safety. Last night was one of the worst nights in a while and I NEED to get away. I need to leave, I need to feed my babies, I need to escape this. My only moments of peace come when he's at work all day, but that doesn't last forever. Shelters are full because of Covid, I have NO family or friends nearby that can help, I'm STUCK. If I was able to hop in the van and go, I would, but I'd never make it with nothing. No gas, no food, nothing to care for my kids until we got somewhere safe. PLEASE pray for me if you can, so that I can get myself and my babies out of here safely. Even if you're not one to pray, I'd appreciate even a kind thought.
Lexi, I see you have internet access. There are ways to contact Law Enforcement and other shelters near to where you live. You can also contact Child Protective Services via the net. Contact the schools, hospitals and even churches. My church is in the business of helping others in dire conditions.

I would consider it an honor to pray for you and your children.
 

puddleglum

Active member
The best solution for your problem would be for your husband to be saved and stop his abusive behavior. I will pray that this will happen.
 

RiJoRi

Well-known member
I don't normally ask for prayers, I try to handle things on my own, but I can't do that anymore. I have two young kids (4 and almost 6 years old) Things have been steadily going downhill with my partner and I just can't handle things anymore. I can't take the abuse from him anymore, I need to get myself and my babies out. Last night was HORRIFIC. He kicked off at nothing, punching holes in the wall, throwing things, destroying anything that belongs to me. Dresser, futon, TV, washer and dryer (flooded the laundry room completely), everything. I'm a stay at home mother, so he has completely taken control of finances. He's withheld and IS withholding food and necessities from us. Refuses to allow me to drive to go out and get anything we need, not that he'd let me have to money to get things anyway. If I ask, it becomes a fight and I worry for my safety and my kids safety. Last night was one of the worst nights in a while and I NEED to get away. I need to leave, I need to feed my babies, I need to escape this. My only moments of peace come when he's at work all day, but that doesn't last forever. Shelters are full because of Covid, I have NO family or friends nearby that can help, I'm STUCK. If I was able to hop in the van and go, I would, but I'd never make it with nothing. No gas, no food, nothing to care for my kids until we got somewhere safe. PLEASE pray for me if you can, so that I can get myself and my babies out of here safely. Even if you're not one to pray, I'd appreciate even a kind thought.
Praying.
You've gotten good advice here. Please apply it - for your children, at least!

--Rich
 

inertia

Super Member
I don't normally ask for prayers, I try to handle things on my own, but I can't do that anymore. I have two young kids (4 and almost 6 years old) Things have been steadily going downhill with my partner and I just can't handle things anymore. I can't take the abuse from him anymore, I need to get myself and my babies out. Last night was HORRIFIC. He kicked off at nothing, punching holes in the wall, throwing things, destroying anything that belongs to me. Dresser, futon, TV, washer and dryer (flooded the laundry room completely), everything. I'm a stay at home mother, so he has completely taken control of finances. He's withheld and IS withholding food and necessities from us. Refuses to allow me to drive to go out and get anything we need, not that he'd let me have to money to get things anyway. If I ask, it becomes a fight and I worry for my safety and my kids safety. Last night was one of the worst nights in a while and I NEED to get away. I need to leave, I need to feed my babies, I need to escape this. My only moments of peace come when he's at work all day, but that doesn't last forever. Shelters are full because of Covid, I have NO family or friends nearby that can help, I'm STUCK. If I was able to hop in the van and go, I would, but I'd never make it with nothing. No gas, no food, nothing to care for my kids until we got somewhere safe. PLEASE pray for me if you can, so that I can get myself and my babies out of here safely. Even if you're not one to pray, I'd appreciate even a kind thought.

Praying for you and your children now.

___
 

John t

Super Member
What is new, Lexi?

From what I read in your OP, you are in imminent danger. That he was so extremely violent against non-living things does not guarantee that he will not be violent against you, or the children.

Most likely, the root cause of the violence is a mental health issue, because that sort of actions is irrational, therefore ALL your actions need to be focused on safety.

There is nothing you can do "fix him". You are not traiined to do so, and trying to do it by yourself, may result in harm for yourself
 

John t

Super Member
Dear LexieB

Something seemed to be "missing" from yiour letter to me, and your not responding to the suggestions I mentioned. After a while of thinking about it, and dealing with end-of-life issues, I intuit that you have a great fear of getting "caught" by hubby discovering what you are doing. Let me show you how to be "invisible" and have no fear about being tracked. Both are easy, but you need to remember what you did.

INVISIBILITY

Go to Yahoo.com, and create a new email account that gives no hint of being a woman. Since I like the poem Jabberwocky by Lewis Carroll, I will take one line and demonstrate.

Beware of the frumious bandersnatch

Make your user name "bandersnatch" and assuming you were born in 1980, the password will be 19Frumious80. When you do that, only you knows who you are, and you can make up anything, using that as a pattern.

TRACKING

Download and install TOR (The Onion Router) It is is free software and an open source network made up of thousands of volunteer relays around the world. Tor was developed at the U.S. Naval Research Laboratory in the mid-1900s as The Onion Routing program.............. When you close the program, all your history is erased.

The only draw back is that it is slow because your information is being routed all over the world before it gets back to you. Do not be be surprised to have the computer believe you are in South Africa or Sweden.
that is TOR doing its job.

Now you are free to get the legal and social help that you need so greatly.

Using the TOR search engine, type in your state, and "abuse of women" That will give you a starting point. Please listen to the professionals in these places. They are trained to help women in your situation. By using using TOR plus the invisibility provided by Yahoo.com you can help yourself to gain a better perspective, remaining safe at the same time.

Hope this helps, and if I guessed wrongly, I apologize but you have not given me much information
 
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