I doubt if you are going to understand, but I'll try anyway.
Let's say, for the sake of argument, that God had determined Adam not to fall. In this case, since Adam did fall, someone would have had to overpower, or outwit, God, in order for Adam to fall.
If God had, yes that would be the case.
Not only that, but, God ordained the Cross, before he even created Adam, so Adam had to fall, otherwise the Cross would have been completely pointless.
Adam had free will, God knew he would fall, God did not have to ordain that to happen, but because that happened God had to have a plan to redeem mankind. Do you agree Adam had free will?
Another proof that it was God's determinative will for Adam to fall, is that God could have prevented it
Adam had free will, where is the proof God determined Adam to disobey his commandment? Are you saying God wants Adam to break his own commandments? He wants Adam to sin? Satan wants that, so he can murder Gods creation, cause seperation, not God.
If God gives Adam free will to choose, God sist back and has to let him,
, in an infinite number of ways, without doing any violence to Adam's will (e.g. he could have warned Adam about the serpent; he could have prevented the serpent from tempting Eve; he could have stepped in and reminded Eve not to eat the forbidden fruit, etc, etc.).
So because God did not jump in and stop it, knowing full well what would happen, he predetermined it, he allowed it to happen, is that correct?
So God issues a commandment, because he has to, but is hoping they disobey it, which they did. That is your take on the two wills, yes? You see I do understand it.
How about God gives them free will, knows they will break his commandment, but doesn't want them to and then has to deal with all the fall out, meaning the chaos that will come after. Maybe God knew it would happen, but couldn't prevent it because of God giving man free will. If you have a son or daughter, do you lock them in a room for their whole life in case they do something wrong, like take drugs? Or do you give them freedom and give them advice and hope they will listen?
Adam and Eve didn't listen.
The problem you have is once you say God has two wills and one will is opposed to the other, especially when we are dealing with sin, if God commands man to obey, but Gods other will is for him not to, if man disobeys Gods commandment, Gods will is being thwarted by his own determinsitic will. God has become divided within himself.
What does Jesus say about a divided house? Mark 3:24-25
The bible is very simple to understand, but Calvinism introduces such complexities, that things like two wills have to be introduced into scripture to make Calvinism seem plausible, but it becomes very exposed.
God cannot be divided against himself, his will was for Adam and Eve to keep his commandment, they had free will, they didn't keep it, it's that simple. God commands man to repent and believe in the gospel, some will, many won't it's that simple. No need for two wills.