No apology is needed. It was God himself who caused it to happen, even though you dislike me intensely.
I don't think I've said anything regarding my like or dislike of you. I presume that you are serious about your faith and love of God. We just disagree on this issue.
Rome didn't have any means of distinguishing Christianity from Judaism as it was the same God, the same law, and the same spirit. Jesus was of course a Jew. Moreover there were many Christians in Jerusalem. At the most it was just a variant of Judaism. It wasn't anything Rome could care about. It was only much later that Rome saw Christianity as a threat. You really are making a lot of things up. The only reason Paul went to Rome was to escape the Jews.
The arguments Paul raised at his trials were not about escaping the Jews, but rather that Christianity was an extension of Judaism. Paul intentionally went into the lions den of Judea despite the advice of his brothers and sisters in Asia minor (see Acts 20). We wasn't afraid for his life in the least.