No where in Scripture does God ever approve of worshiping Him vicariously through objects or persons. You so badly want idolatry to be acceptable. And it is NOT acceptable in the New Testament, just as it was NOT acceptable in the Old Testament.
Jesus says verbatim
Luke 4:8
Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve him only.’
John 4:23-24
But a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and in truth, for the Father is seeking such as these to worship Him. God is Spirit, and His worshipers must worship Him in spirit and in truth.”
Your attempting to justify and find excuses for the worship of statues, saints, relics... etc...