As I pointed out in my "Know" thread, words have many different connotations, and Merriam-Webster lists 15 main connotations for "force", and many more minor connotations. So it depends on what you mean by "force". It's helpful to define our terms.
We get the feeling that Arminians are either intending, or what readers to have the connotation, that you mean:
1: to do violence to
5: to achieve or win by strength in struggle or violence:
We don't believe God "forces" us that way.
However, if you mean:
2: to compel by physical, moral, or intellectual means
3: to make or cause especially through natural or logical necessity
... we don't think there's any Biblical problem with that.
Having said that, I don't think it helps move discussion forward to talk about God "forcing" (nor is it stated Biblically), it only seems to have negative effect on discussion (mud-slinging) by encouraging readers to jump to the wrong conclusion. And I suspect that is precisely why many people use it.